girls….its time to wake up….

in India ,no more girls are safe….media reports show rape is increased in an  alarming rate….i now prefer to read them rarely or occasionally…just to avoid loosing my good mood…anyway i do not have the guts to  try a newspaper in the morning…!

a three year old…five year old…

in the bus….in workplace….  and most difficult to digest is, in their own home…..if a girl is not safe in her own  home where else she could be…..how horrible it is….

and many girls are now getting killed as a revenge for not accepting boy’s proposals….

im in a freezed mental state…. how to react or what change my response can bring, nothing…… so i prefer to write to myself…just to ventilate my emotions…the solution lies deeper in every individual…to become a responsible and caring person need a long time…a patient parent only can supply a good individual to the society…children should learn how to love others from their own parents…now a days it rarely happens…in fact parents quarrel each other most of the time when they see each other…more divorce…more broken families…no one tolerate ….not even a simple criticism…and for what those criticisms….?just to tell that one should change….one should be like another person…?one must understand one cannot change another,but oneself….one must learn how to accept another unconditionally…there are both positives and negatives in one…you have to accept both…..if not what your ‘love’ means…?

ohh…where am i going…?

i just want to tell my girls in india….

be more brave…and know whats the world and in what kind of society you are living…you must have your own attitude and personality….go to society and learn how to defend yourself…….

instead of science learn karate and get a black belt…

don’t miss a gym…

as India got an Olympics medal in boxing, government should give free training to girls in schools …let them learn how to punch a nose…!

climb trees and acquire more strength….

learn sky diving…swimming…..sporting..and have more experiences….

throwing a cricket ball may be a help sometimes..so play cricket….

instead of remaining in home go for martial arts training….training in martial arts will boost up your confidence…whenever you are unsafe you learn how to react….react when your personal space is breached…

go to beauty parlor to look less feminine …..dress like a man…….bobe your hair and be less attractive…..and make others feel that its dangerous to approach you …..!

learn drama and use it to suite occasions…

think about driving a truck or bus rather than a small car or bike…aim big…!

this is for grown up girls….i do not know about smaller ones….

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